"Going Underground . . . Narcissistic Injury and Full-Scale War"
In this explosive episode, Amy and Misi dissect the catastrophic fallout from the Purple Hammer Incident, revealing how a narcissistic abuser weaponizes email to destroy lives. After Amy escapes Gary's control in early May 2023, she witnesses his mask slip completely as he launches a vicious smear campaign to everyone in her professional network. Through actual emails, recordings, and evidence, this episode exposes the calculated cruelty of narcissistic abuse: the projection, the DARVO tactics, and the relentless attempts to control the narrative. Despite losing clients and facing professional devastation, Amy demonstrates how she fought back - getting Gary's email shut down for harassment and refusing to be silenced.

Suggested Resources for Narcissistic Abuse Awareness and Recovery

Guidance & Education from Therapists and Mental Health Professionals
● Dr. Ramani https://www.youtube.com/@DoctorRamani 
● Surviving Narcissim https://www.youtube.com/@SurvivingNarcissism
● Prof. Sam Vaknin https://www.youtube.com/@samvaknin

Narcissistic Abuse Educators and Recovery Coaches
● Synful_ https://www.youtube.com/@ResilientAF 
● Love and Abuse https://www.youtube.com/@LoveandAbuse 
● Understanding Narcissim https://www.youtube.com/@Understandingnarcissism 
● The Virtual Couch https://www.youtube.com/@TheVirtualCouchPodcast 
● Claire Auden https://www.youtube.com/@claireauden

Content from “Self Aware Narcissists”
● Mental Healness https://www.youtube.com/@MentalHealness
● Raw Motivations https://www.youtube.com/@RawMotivations
● The Bat Wolf https://www.youtube.com/@The_Bat_Wolf

Other Helpful Content Creators
● Jefferson Fisher https://www.youtube.com/@jeffersonfisher 
● Jimmy on Relationships https://www.youtube.com/@JimmyonRelationships 
● Therapy Jeff https://www.youtube.com/@TherapyJeff 
● Beyond Bitchy Podcast
● Lisa Bilyeu https://www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu 
● Conflictish https://www.youtube.com/@conflict-ish 
● Mel Robbins https://www.youtube.com/@melrobbins 

Self-Help Resources
● The Gottman Institute https://www.youtube.com/@TheGottmanInstitute 
● CPTSD Foundation https://cptsdfoundation.org/ 
● Lethality Assessment Questions for First Responders https://shamelesssurvivors.com/lethality-assessment-screen/ 

Amy’s Spotify Playlist “Narcissistic Abuse”
https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4HMgAmeH3u1NjgKNdQxKo3?pi=EyN_jRs6R7ChK